The question came up again:
“What is the best curriculum for my children? They are four and six years old, and I’m afraid of letting them fall behind.”
I remember being a young parent, eager to start homeschooling. I used to get mad (without letting it show, like a true introvert) when people told me, “They are young. Just let them play.”
Now I see the wisdom in it.
The most important thing for your children right now, by far, is for them to enjoy learning. The joy of learning is a child’s natural state. As a parent, your primary job is to keep yourself from stomping it out.
But our parental fears can push us into joy-trampling before we realize it.
And our own experience of school makes it hard for us to see how much of our children’s play really is learning. We expect education to look like schoolwork, but natural learning looks nothing like that.
Natural Learning Looks like Conversation
“The lesson here is that children are brilliant. They build math out of their everyday experiences, and when you offer them opportunities they apply the math they know to make further sense of their worlds.”
Counting in downtown Saint Paul
- Read more about How to Talk Math With Your Kids.
Natural Learning Looks Listening to Your Children
- Find out more about Annie Fetter’s common-sense approach to math: Math Makes Sense — Let’s Teach It That Way.
It Looks Like Free Play
“The children who receive the least instruction from parents, volunteers, or me are the most likely to persist. These are the children who will spend 20 minutes or more exploring the possibilities. But when we tell kids to ‘make a pattern’, we are asking the children to fill that carton with our ideas, rather than allowing them to explore their own.”
Let the children play
Let children play with blocks or other math toys, or with anything they find around the house or outdoors.
Free play, without any direction or instruction from you.
And Playing Games Together
“If you play these games and your child learns only that hard mental effort can be fun, you will have taught something invaluable.”
- Check out this post for all the free games on my Let’s Play Math blog: My Favorite Math Games.
- Or pick up this free ebook, featuring excerpts from my most popular books: Play Math with Your Kids for Free.
CREDITS: “Two children” photo (top) by Kevin Gent on Unsplash.