How to Teach Math: 3 Goals for This Homeschool Year

Young girl studying

“It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.”

—Albert Einstein

Whenever a new set of test results comes in, society goes through a new cycle of hand- wringing and blame-casting. The most current PISA results are no different. The best analysis I’ve seen: The Sky Is Always Falling by Bill McCallum.

Rather than join that fray, let’s step back and ask a bigger question: What do we want for our children?

Why do we school our kids? What does it mean to be “educated”? And in particular, why do we teach math? What do we hope to achieve?

We can’t think rationally about how to teach until we are clear about our goals.

What’s Your Priority?

  • Do you want to produce good test-takers, children who know how to follow instructions and work efficiently?
  • Or do you care less about efficiency and more about curiosity? Do you want students who enjoy wondering about concepts and are eager to learn more?
  • Or maybe you want problem-solvers, students who can step into an unfamiliar situation and figure it out?

Can we choose option D, all of the above? Is it possible to work toward all these goals at once, to build solid knowledge and teach mathematical skills while at the same time encouraging curiosity and developing flexible thinking?

Like a toddler throwing a tantrum, I want it all, and I want it right now.

I don’t know how to solve the problems of classroom schooling, but here’s some advice for my fellow home schoolers.

This school year…

(1) Build Problem-Solving Skills

Whatever math curriculum you use, focus math lessons on your child’s own thinking.

Rather than telling them what to do, ask about what they know. Help children find a way to use what they’ve already learned to reason about the new topic.

Consider doing your math lessons buddy-style:

And when your children get stuck, follow the tips in my “If Not Methods” blog series:

(2) Practice for Fluency

Reinforce learning with creative practice.

Don’t just memorize facts, but use them in a variety of ways. Build mental math skills by playing math games, especially games that require strategic use of math skills.

Check out my blog for ideas:

(3) Explore Non-Textbook Math

Encourage curiosity through puzzles, enrichment activities, reading good books, playing with math art, and journaling.

For example:

  • Learning Math with Puzzles
    As stories are to history or science, puzzles are to math.
  • Make Your Own Nim Games
    Mathematicians enjoy studying patterns, whether they are patterns within our system of numbers or patterns of shapes or of abstract ideas.
  • Living Books for Math
    Here are a few of my favorite books of playful, living math, both old and new.
  • Discover Math in Art
    Art lets children experiment with lines, curves, shapes and symmetries, exploring a wide range of mathematical structures and relationships.
  • The Creative Way To Help Your Kids Learn Math
    When you embrace this adventure of learning math through playful exploration, you’ll be surprised how much fun thinking hard can be.

“How to Teach Math” copyright © 2026 by Denise Gaskins. Image at the top of the blog copyright © Wavebreakmedia / Depositphotos.

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The Science of Learning 2: Practice

boy learning to ride a bike

We’ve been looking at Deans for Impact’s white paper, “The Science of Learning,” which summarizes cognitive science research and its implications for teachers (and homeschoolers). The paper poses six key questions that help us to apply the principles of science in teaching our children.

This week, let’s explore how students learn and retain new information.

Because if we want our children to be able use what we teach them, the first step is to help them remember it.

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The Science of Learning 1: Understanding

young girl holding a butterfly

We all want our children to thrive, to grow, to learn, to succeed in school and in life.

Cognitive science focuses on the “learning” part of life, studying how people acquire and retain information and then incorporate it into their understanding of the world. Earlier this year, Deans for Impact published a new edition of their white paper, “The Science of Learning,” summarizing cognitive science research and its implications for teachers.

What do we know about how students learn, and what does that mean for how we teach?

    That’s what The Science of Learning seeks to answer.

      The Science of Learning summarizes existing cognitive-science research on how students learn and connects it to practical implications for teaching. The report is a resource for teacher-educators, new teachers, and anyone in the education profession who is interested in how learning takes place.

      Download a copy and read it for yourself:

      In this series, we’ll go through Deans for Impact’s six key questions and learn how to apply the principles of science in teaching our children. First, let’s explore how students understand new ideas.

      Because if we want our children’s learning to stick, our focus must always be on helping them make sense of things.

      How Do Students Understand New Ideas?

      Principles from The Science of Learning:

      • Students learn by connecting new knowledge to what they already know.
      • Students have limited working memory capacity that can be overwhelmed if given too much information at once or if tasks are cognitively too demanding.
      • Cognitive development does not progress in a fixed sequence at age-related stages. Understanding does not happen all at once or just one time; the mastery of new concepts happens in fits and starts.

      Tips for Teachers

      • Encourage students to remember what they’ve already learned, and help them connect new knowledge to old.
      • Use stories, activities, and visuals that clearly relate to the concept being studied. Avoid distracting clutter that is merely decorative.
      • When working example problems, discuss the reasoning behind each step and help students make connections.
      • Don’t limit students to “grade level” ideas, but wonder about big concepts.
      • Don’t assume that learning something once is enough. Repetition and reinforcement make learning solid.

      My Comments

      We make sense of new ideas by connecting them to things we already know, by recognizing relationships.

      I appreciate the reminder of how important background knowledge is to new learning. It’s easy for me to jump straight into the new material, thinking that’s the interesting part of a lesson, but I need to let my students orient themselves by remembering what we’ve done before.

      Just as I begin a history read-aloud with, “Tell me what happened last time,” I can begin a math lesson with, “Remind me of what you know about division.” My goal is not to make connections for my students, but to open their eyes so they can see the relationships for themselves.

      Try This Today: Number Webs

      For each post in this Science of Learning series, I’ll share an activity idea that gives you and your children a way to put it into practice. Today, let’s play with relationships and see how many connections we can find between math ideas by creating Number Webs.

      For best results, get a large whiteboard or a sheet of poster-size paper.

      Write a number or math expression in the center of your space. Then take turns writing equivalent expressions, other ways to say the same thing. Draw lines to show how these new expressions branch out from the original to form families of related math.

      For example, if you begin with the number five, branches might include:

      • 1+4, 2+3, etc.
      • 10÷2, 15÷3, and so on
      • 20/4, 50/10, etc.
      • What else can you think of?

      As you build your number web, each transformation will spark new ideas. You can create branches off the branches. For example, you could shoot off from 15÷3 with an expression like (5+5+5)÷3, or (7+8)÷(9−6).

      For each bit of math you add, be prepared to explain why it fits in the family you chose, or how it’s different from the others and needs to start a new branch. Often an expression could fit in several places, and players may argue for their own point of view. But the player whose turn it is has the final say where to place his or her creation.

      Instead of (or in addition to) writing in a new expression, players may draw in a line that connects it to an expression on a different branch. Numbers relate to each other in various ways, and there is almost always more than one way to think about linking them. For example, you might join the division expression 15÷3 with the fraction 15/3 and the multiplication (⅓)×15.

      Don’t worry about keeping your Number Web neat and systematic. Explore and let the connections get a bit wild. There’s always another relationship to discover.

       
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      Read the whole Science of Learning series.

      “The Science of Learning 1: Understanding” copyright © 2026 by Denise Gaskins. The Number Webs activity is a brainchild of Sonya Post from Learning Well at Home (affiliate link). Image at the top of the blog copyright © Nadezhda1906 / Depositphotos.

      Are you looking for more creative ways to play math with your kids? Check out all my books, printable activities, and cool mathy merch at Denise Gaskins’ Playful Math Store. Or join my email newsletter.

      This blog is reader-supported. If you’d like to help fund the blog on an ongoing basis, then please join me on Patreon (or choose the paid level on Substack) for mathy inspiration, tips, and an ever-growing archive of printable activities.

      Cat Quotations

      painting of children with kittens

      And now for something completely different…

      The intrepid Quote Investigator played around with math recently:

      “You know, people think that mathematics is complicated. Mathematics is the simple bit. It’s the stuff we can understand. It’s cats that are complicated.”

      —John Horton Conway

      It reminded me of one of my favorite homeschooling exercises:

      • I would write out a short paragraph, all lower-case with no punctuation (and usually including some misspellings and grammar errors) on a whiteboard.
      • Then my children took turns marking the passage like editors correcting my work.

      One of these exercises was a series of short quotations about cats, which my youngest daughter loved.

      So in today’s post, I’ve put together an editing exercise you can share with your children, along with several links for playing with mathematical cats.

      Enjoy!

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      The Problem with Socratic Questions

      Statue of Socrates.

      “I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think.”

      —Socrates

      “There is no education but self-education and only as the young student works with his own mind is anything effected.”

      —Charlotte Mason

      Two great teachers of the past agree that a child’s mind is no bucket. We cannot shovel in whatever information we please and call that “learning.”

      So how can we get children to think, to work with their own minds, to build their own relationships with knowledge?

      Charlotte Mason's Living Math book by Denise Gaskins, hardcoverI try to answer that question, at least for math, in my new book Charlotte Mason’s Living Math, which is now available exclusively on my Playful Math Store.

      As I was finishing up the final bits of indexing and formatting the book for publication, I continued to tweak the manuscript. This ability to tinker endlessly is both a benefit and curse of indie publishing. For example, I added four new pages to explain my quibble with Socrates.

      You see, Socratic questions are very much a case of “Do what I say, not what I do.”

      Continue reading The Problem with Socratic Questions

      Charlotte Mason’s Living Math Now in Print!

      Charlotte Mason's Living Math Kickstarter

      Charlotte Mason's Living Math book by Denise Gaskins, paperbackThe long-awaited deluxe, full-color edition of Charlotte Mason’s Living Math is now available exclusively on my Playful Math Store in paperback and hardcover (and ebook, too).

      Hooray!

      If you’d like to know more about the book, check out my interview with Cindy Rollins on The New Mason Jar podcast:

      Continue reading Charlotte Mason’s Living Math Now in Print!

      Podcast: Charlotte Mason’s Living Math

      family doing math together

      Cindy Rollins, Dawn Duran, and I had a delightful chat about my new book, Charlotte Mason’s Living Math, which is now available in ebook (print editions coming soon!) at my Playful Math Store.

      We talked about how math is a whole world full of big, living ideas that we can explore with our children. What it means to have a living education in math, opening our children’s minds to big ideas about the relationships of numbers, shapes, and patterns. And how to tell if our kids really understand what they are doing, or if they’re just parroting back the steps we taught them.

      And lots more — listen for yourself…

      Continue reading Podcast: Charlotte Mason’s Living Math

      FAQ: Doing Math His Own Way

      FAQ learning subtraction math

      Isn’t it fun when children surprise us with their understanding?

      All my children have figured out ways to do things in math that I would never have expected, and I’ve learned quite a bit from listening to their explanations.

      But what if the child’s creative method makes it hard for them to learn what our textbook wants to teach?

      Continue reading FAQ: Doing Math His Own Way

      Are You Smarter than a 3rd-6th Grader?

      girl raising hand in math class

      Recently, I stumbled on an old blog post featuring Singapore Math problems, and it brought back memories.

      Back when my children were young, the original Primary Math series from Singapore was one of my favorite math curricula. I tweaked our school program constantly, so none of my kids had the same education, but three of them spent a good part of their elementary years in those books.

      And I followed the Math in Singapore 2007 blog for its single season of publication. The blog has gone the way of many others, preserved only in the Internet Archive.

      In the post I re-discovered, Patsy Wang-Iverson was reporting on a week-long seminar organized by Celine Koh, who offered the following problems (adapted from school exams and study books) for teacher discussion.

      How many can you solve?

      Continue reading Are You Smarter than a 3rd-6th Grader?

      Homeschool Burnout? 10 Tips for Coping

      Homeschool Burnout

      [Memories from 20 years ago. Like our kids’ childhood, the homeschooling season passes faster than we expect.]

      Spring cleaning has made my desk look worse than before. Nobody feels like studying. The kids would rather be outside, and their mom would rather take a nap. Sound familiar? It is our annual attack of homeschool burnout.

      If you, too, are suffering from lethargy and can’t face another day of school work, here are some ideas that have helped me:

      (1) Re-read the homeschooling books on your shelves.

      Or get some new ones from the library. Try to read about one a month, if you can, to help get your enthusiasm back. And then read at least one new homeschooling book per year to help you stay inspired.

      Continue reading Homeschool Burnout? 10 Tips for Coping