Morning Coffee: That Moment of Epiphany

Morning Coffee Lifelong Learning for Parents

One of the best ways we can help our children learn mathematics (or anything else) is to be lifelong learners ourselves.

Here are a few stories to read as you sip your morning brew. . .

Download your printable Morning Coffee journal

This week’s rabbit hole started with a thought-provoking article from Dan Meyer…

“It would have been quite easy, nothing at all really, to share the epiphany with students, to share the short-cut, to tell my kid that these are all the even numbers and here is where you’ll find them…”

—Dan Meyer

Read more about the value of taking the harder long-cut in this fifth installment of professional development for homeschooling parents.

 
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Playing to Learn

quotation from Dan Finkel

“Play and rigor support each other.

    “When students are invited to play with math, they learn more deeply, more robustly, and remember more consistently.

      “Play is promoted as something that can engage kids and give them a more positive attitude about school, but it’s easy to assume that it’s not useful for learning, when in reality the opposite is true:

        “The student who is playing tends to be the student who is learning most deeply.”

        —Dan Finkel, Math for Love newsletter

        Mental Math: Three Basic Principles

        Doing mental math on the couch

        “We know that algorithms are amazing human achievements, but they are not good teaching tools because mimicking step-by-step procedures can actually trap students into using less sophisticated reasoning than the problems are intended to develop.”

        — Pam Harris, Math Is Figure-Out-Able Podcast

        Whether you work with a math curriculum or take a less-traditional route to learning, do not be satisfied with mere pencil-and-paper competence. Instead, work on building your children’s mental math skills, because mental calculation forces a child to understand arithmetic at a much deeper level than is required by traditional pencil-and-paper methods.

        Traditional algorithms (the math most of us learned in school) rely on memorizing and rigidly following the same set of rules for every problem, repeatedly applying the basic, single-digit math facts. Computers excel at this sort of step-by-step procedure, but children struggle with memory lapses and careless errors.

        Mental math, on the other hand, relies on a child’s own creative mind to consider how numbers interact with each other in many ways. It teaches students the true 3R’s of math: to Recognize and Reason about the Relationships between numbers.

        The techniques that let us work with numbers in our heads reflect the fundamental properties of arithmetic. These principles are also fundamental to algebra, which explains why flexibility and confidence in mental math is one of the best predictors of success in high school math and beyond.

        Your textbook may explain these properties in technical terms, but don’t be intimidated by the jargon. These are just common-sense rules for playing with numbers.

        Continue reading Mental Math: Three Basic Principles

        Musings: Mental Math Is the Key to Algebra

        Painting by Nikolay Bogdanov-Belsky, public domain

        “If you stay with meaningful mental arithmetic longer, you will find that your child, if she is average, can do problems much more advanced than the level listed for her grade. You will find that she likes arithmetic more.

          “And when she does get to abstractions, she will understand them better.

            “She will not need two or three years of work in primary grades to learn how to write out something like a subtraction problem with two-digit numbers. She can learn that in a few moments of time, if you just wait.”

            —Ruth Beechick, An Easy Start in Arithmetic

            What Do You Mean by Mental Math?

            Mental math is doing calculations in your head, with perhaps the aid of scratch paper or a whiteboard to jot down notes along the way.

            But you cannot simply transfer the standard pencil-and-paper calculations to a mental chalkboard. That’s far too complicated.

            Continue reading Musings: Mental Math Is the Key to Algebra

            Morning Coffee: What Is Mathematics?

            Morning Coffee Lifelong Learning for Parents

            One of the best ways we can help our children learn mathematics (or anything else) is to be lifelong learners ourselves.

            Here are a few stories to read as you sip your morning brew. . .

            Download your printable Morning Coffee journal

            This week’s rabbit hole started with a thought-provoking blog post by Sara Van Der Werf…

            “We are all mathematicians. We all have the power to notice, describe, and generalize patterns. You have all had this ability since birth.

              “If we believe this then every day we must plan lessons that allow students to act as mathematicians. We must put something in front of our students to notice. We must put something in front of our students to describe, to generalize.”

              —Sara Van Der Werf

              Read more about how to develop mathematical thinking in this fourth installment of professional development for homeschooling parents.

               
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              Are you looking for more creative ways to play math with your kids? Check out all my books, printable activities, and cool mathy merch at Denise Gaskins’ Playful Math Store. Or join my email newsletter.

              This blog is reader-supported. If you’d like to help fund the blog on an on-going basis, then please join me on Patreon for mathy inspiration, tips, and an ever-growing archive of printable activities.

              “Morning Coffee: What Is Mathematics?” copyright © 2025 by Denise Gaskins. Image at the top of post copyright © Kira auf der Heide / Unsplash.

              Monday is Square Root Day

              square tree with roots

              On May 5, we celebrate one of the rarest math holidays: Square Root Day, 5/5/25.

              Here are a few ideas for playing math with squares and roots.

              What is a Square Root?

              Five is the square root of twenty-five, which means it is the number we can “square” (multiply times itself) to get 25.

              The root is the base number from which the square grows. In physical terms, it is the side of the square.

              Imagine a straight segment of length 5, perhaps a stick or a piece of chalk. Now lay that segment down and slide it sideways for a distance equal to its length. Drag the stick across sand, or pull the chalk across paper or a slate.

              Notice how this sideways motion transforms the one-dimensional length into a two-dimensional shape, a square.

              The area of this shape is the square of its root: 5 × 5 = 25.

              What do you think would happen if you could drag the square through a third dimension, or drag that resulting shape through a fourth dimension?
              How many shapes do you suppose might grow from that original root of 5?

              Continue reading Monday is Square Root Day

              Charlotte Mason Math: Living Books

              “The Reading Lesson” painting by Jonathan Pratt, public domain

              [An addendum to my earlier Charlotte Mason Math series.]

              “Our business is to give [children] mind-stuff, and both quality and quantity are essential. Naturally, each of us possesses this mind-stuff only in limited measure, but we know where to procure it; for the best thought the world possesses is stored in books; we must open books to children, the best books; our own concern is abundant provision and orderly serving.”

              — Charlotte Mason, Toward A Philosophy of Education

              Most homeschool teachers, whatever our curriculum or schooling approach, understand the importance of teaching with living books. We read aloud biographies, historical fiction, or the classics of literature. We scour library shelves for the most creative presentations of scientific topics that interest our children, and encourage our high school students to go back to the original documents whenever possible.

              And we teach math with a textbook.

              Not that textbooks are inherently bad, because math is an abstract science. We need to meet the ideas  — the “mind-stuff” — of math on their own terms, and textbooks can help with that.

              But it’s not enough.

              Continue reading Charlotte Mason Math: Living Books

              Musings: Math Is a Social Game

              photo of three young girls talking about numbers

              Childhood Memories

              When I was in school, math was something each person did on their own for homework, quizzes or tests.

              Even when the teacher sent us to work on the chalkboard, each person did their own problem. We would never think to collaborate on math.

              To look at someone else’s answer was considered cheating.

              Continue reading Musings: Math Is a Social Game

              Morning Coffee: Anyone Can Learn Math

              Morning Coffee Lifelong Learning for Parents

              One of the best ways we can help our children learn mathematics (or anything else) is to be lifelong learners ourselves.

              Here are a few stories to read as you sip your morning brew:

              Once again, my rabbit hole started with a thought-provoking blog post from Dan Finkel…

              “Not everyone can become a great artist — but a great artist can come from anywhere.”
              —Ego, from Ratatouille

                “Ego’s parsing of the phrase anyone can cook is not obvious, and it’s not really the primary meaning of the phrase. The truth is, there are really three meanings all wrapped up there: anyone can learn to have the joy and pleasure of cooking in their life, even if they don’t become a master chef. Some people will get serious about it. And the visionaries who change the way we think about the art can come from anywhere — lock them out of the field and we all suffer.”
                —Dan Finkel

                Read more about how anyone can learn math in this third installment of professional development for homeschooling parents.

                 
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                Are you looking for more creative ways to play math with your kids? Check out all my books, printable activities, and cool mathy merch at Denise Gaskins’ Playful Math Store. Or join my email newsletter.

                This blog is reader-supported. If you’d like to help fund the blog on an on-going basis, then please join me on Patreon for mathy inspiration, tips, and an ever-growing archive of printable activities.

                “Morning Coffee: Anyone Can Learn Math” copyright © 2025 by Denise Gaskins. Image at the top of post copyright © Kira auf der Heide / Unsplash.